Most meetings are a waste of time.
They drain morale, kill momentum, and crowd out the work that actually matters. And yet, we keep scheduling more of them.
Meetings have gone from necessary alignment to a default setting. According to Harvard Business Review, executives now spend nearly 23 hours a week in meetings, up from less than 10 hours in the 1960s.
The problem isn’t meetings themselves, it’s the unnecessary ones. And there can be lots of those.
The bloated catch-ups, the recurring status updates, the quick catch up calls that somehow eat up half your afternoon. They waste time, drain focus, frustrate your team, and cost more than you think.
It’s time to treat meetings like any other business expense, justify them, or remove them.
This article will show you how, with a no-nonsense framework to decide what really needs a meeting, and what can be solved faster (and better) with async tools, updates, or silence.
Every hour spent in a meeting is an hour not spent on deep work, speaking to customers, or strategic planning.
Here are the hidden costs:
"A meeting is a gathering where people talk about the work they should be doing.” - Seth Godin, Author.
Unnecessary meetings are expensive. They erode productivity, cost money, and damage morale. They’re also boring for most participants. Recognising their impact is the first step to reclaiming time.
If you have a creeping sense that meetings are out of control, you’re probably right. But if you need further proof, here are the red flags to watch for:
"Meetings are a symptom of bad organisation. The fewer meetings the better." - Patrick Lencioni, author of Death by Meeting.
When you start to notice two or more of these signs cropping up consistently, it’s time to challenge whether every meeting is truly necessary.
Meetings aren’t the problem. Pointless meetings are.
If you’re going to interrupt someone’s day, it had better be worth it.
Here’s when a meeting actually makes sense:
If it’s not one of those? Think twice.
And even when a meeting is justified, it still needs structure with a clear agenda, a defined goal and a tight time limit.
Before you send that invite, run it through a quick test. If you’re answering no to most of the questions, then don’t waste people’s time. Send an email or drop a Slack message. Done.
Use this litmus test to filter unnecessary meetings. If you don’t need real-time input or consensus, an asynchronous update is usually better.
Most meetings aren’t necessary, they’re just a bad habit. If what you need is clarity, alignment, or an update, there’s usually a faster, smarter way to get it done.
Keep emails tight. Use bullet points, action items, and clear subject lines. No one wants to read a novel.
Use threads to keep it tidy. Set expectations for response time so no one feels pressure to reply instantly.
If you need to explain something complex, but don’t need a live discussion? Record a quick Loom.
It’s more personal than text, can be watched anytime, and solves timezone issues
Keep it under 5 minutes. Be clear about what you’re asking and what action you expect.
Tag people, set deadlines, and write clear descriptions. If someone needs to chase you for context, the tool isn’t working hard enough.
Use templates. Keep it clean. Update regularly. Your future self (and team) will thank you.
If your meeting has a better async alternative, take it. Don’t confuse real-time with real value.
Bloated calendars don’t fix themselves. If you want to stop wasting time, you need to make intentional changes and enforce them.
Here’s how to start cleaning up the mess:
It can be done. According to chief operating officer Kaz Nejatian, Shopify 'deleted 322,000 hours of meetings', by writing code which purged all recurring meetings with three or more people. He estimates this was the equivalent of adding 150 new employees.
Respect your team’s time. Protect their focus. Kill the meetings that don’t earn their place.
Real work doesn’t happen in meetings, it happens between them.
“Meetings aren’t free. Meetings are the last resort, not the first option. Five people in a room for an hour isn’t a one hour meeting, it’s a five hour meeting. How often was it worth that? Could you have just written it up instead? Be mindful of the costs and tradeoffs.” - Jason Fried, CEO, Basecamp